People know of our conversation because our posts are public.
Your check was only $28 dollars.
Wow, that must be a dissappointment.
Your mom was right. Life is hard.
My father passed away one month. One month later to the date, I was driving & my car caught on fire with me in it. The washer broke down. I lost the sentimental ring my mom gave me when dad died. It was a wedding ring that dad got for mom. It was a little big on my finger so it must have slipped off. I had stress on the job, financial stress, I was involved in even a more stressful relationship. This all happened in a month's time.
I can tell you that things will calm down. Sometimes, it may take a little while.
Its true: "this too shall come to pass".
in response to NishQuiche...Leave.
She's right,its her house.
When others come to live it does raises the water,electric bills,etc.
You are NEVER going to find peace there.
Save your SANITY & run,don't walk.
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Not really.
It would cost .45cents just for the postage to send it.
Then people would start complaining because they are not first or in the first few people to get a dollar.
You can NEVER make all people happy.
Somebody is always going to be an unhappy camper.
Let everyone learn to manage their own finances with wisdom is my motto.
But,I do like the concept of your idea.
Good luck with it.
in response to Sophie 17...Sophie,
I did NOT get a 'thank you' post back in December.
Perhaps, it went to another poster or page. I don't know.
That was why I sent you a post asking if you got it.
Stuff do get lost in cyberspace, so its no big deal.
The important thing is you received it.
Besides,you are going through such a big loss in your life.
It would be difficult for me to think of anything at all if I were dealing with the loss of my mother.
I wish you the best.
(1) Call your local Mental Health Centers & ask for a listing of the AA, NA meetings. Or,you can google online for those in your area.
The NA meeting would be for him/her. However, if there is not one in your area have him/her go to an AA meetings.
He/she will get a sponsor & support at the meetings.
(2) You also have to FAST & pray for your child to be delivered from their destructions. How long will you have to fast? As long as it take for God to answer your prayer. If that means fasting one day every week,then thats what you would need to do.
in response to Sophie 17...Contact the Aidpage Team for how to delete posts that far back as well as questions about how site work. They could answer it better than me.
Just look at the boxes to the right of the screen click the box that says Aidpage Team.
There is no need to be ashame of needing help. Everyone needs help at one time or another. Somebody somewhere in life 'did something' for all of us. And yes, I can prove it.
"Somebody changed our diapers, fed us, cared for us when we were babies". So, you see NONE of us made it 'own our own' without the help of anyone.
I know it seems like we did it all on our own. And, I myself have been guilty of saying I did it on my own. But,in reality none of us 'did it all on our own'.
Funerals cost ALOT of money. Its unbelievable how much money that is needed before we make our final exit in life.
Thank God 'air is free'. If it wasn't, alot of people would not be breathing. LOL
Have you thought about sending all those people who owe you money a little reminder note? Perhaps, reminding that you would apprecitate them repaying the monies owed you so you can apply to your mothers final expense. I know, I know. Its none of my business, just a thought.
Is that a Kentucky thing?
Are they not like most places?
I don't understand.
If I wanted an apartment, I would just apply. I would go to the rental companies that rent apartmets. They would check out my credit,income, etc. Then I would expect to get an apartment I could afford.
I am so sorry that its so hard in your Kentucky.
I hope things get better for you.
Good to hear from you.
Obama can 'sing' too.
At least he does not have to worry about having a side job in case he does not get a 2nd term. LOL
Hope you get your wifi working good.
Have a blessed night.
in response to Sophie 17...Oh sweetie,
My heart goes out to you.
I'm just recently coming out of the 'fog of grieving' from losing my grandmother over a year ago.
Losing relatives is hard.
The very thought of losing my mother makes my heart race in a panic.
Of course, losing the people we love is a path that all must go.
I'm so sorry I never received your post.
Thank you for letting me know you received it.
There have many a many of people on this site who have received help form others. Some have been found to be scammers. Others have totally disappeared after getting help.
This really 'hurts' the one who has befriended the person & helped the person. The people who help others here,we are just regular people who often are in need ourselves. We have feelings too
That is why people who gave on this site got hurt. Many of the givers left or no longer give.
I am sorry what happened to you on that other site. I don't think I have ever heard of that site before.
I am not familiar with any contest giveaways as I do not participate in such.
Maybe, their are others on here who could give you more info on them.
I hope things get better for you.
I pray God will comfort you during your time o grieving.
in response to buzz2304...Wow,
I would've thought the service groups could have gotten you an increase.
20% is very low especially for a sniper.
I don't understand that at all.
in response to buzz2304...May I ask, are you trying to get your disabiltiy increase yourself or have you gone through a service organization such as the DAV, VFW, etc?
in response to Leese...You are so kind.
I never heard back from her, even though I emailed her a month ago asking if she received the earrings.
I have given to many through this site in the past.
However, I never hear from those people now.
Also, alot of us on this site that helped a aidpage member alot only to find out that she was scamming us.
It broke the spirits of alot of us here.
in response to Sophie 17...I'm so glad you got the card I sent you.
I was wondering if you got it as I never heard back from you.
Did you like the earrings that I sent along with the card?
in response to Victory and Faith...I'm so glad yoou got to your appointment.
Prayer does work.
Sometimes, the answer does not come right away, but it will come.
God bless you.
in response to SADLYME...For trying new things: it does not necessarily take a whole lot of money.
Community colleges often offer 'fun or creative' courses cheaply. It will be under the continueing ed department. Some of the 'fun' courses they offer here are: photography, zuma, line dancing, horticulture, art, drawing, painting, web design,etc.
I understand the 'lack of inside passion' thing. I am experiencing that now. I think it may be hormonal problems or health issues at work here.
Have you seen a doctor? Its a chance that you can be suffering from a vitamin or mineral deficiency, there may be hormonal issues, you could be suffering from depression.
If everything is fine there, then maybe you could talk to someone practicing alternative medicine. Hypnosis could possible be of great benefit to you.
And no, everyone does not love themselves. Many don't realize they don't love themselves. However, it manifests itself in relationships. This is why they can't seem to love others or can't stay in a healthy relationship. For,if one hates themself it makes it hard to love others people outside their familial or familiar realm.
in response to SADLYME...I can identify with how you're feeling. Having often felt similar.
However, its true no other person can make us truly happy.
We have to ask God to 'fill us with His fullness'.
Have you thought about just trying "new things".
Take a course in something you've never tried before. Get involved in a organization in your community helping others,etc.
I wish you the best.
I'm here if you need an ear.
hugs
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