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stressedoutman
I'm in need of some really good advice on saving my house,no job, poor health just need someone to talk to.

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Christianlady   in reply to Christianlady
I need money for christmas
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needsabrake
Thank you for your post on places that mite be able to help I'm going to make some calls today and hope lipa doesn't. Show up at my door today to turn off my electric
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raycine   in reply to bookworm2011
Well I would follow my heart that is your daughter and when you reach out to help her you will be helpin the other people that's important in her life.
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Anonymous40784   in reply to bookworm2011
I sent you an email.
I couldn't get a post to go through earlier.
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bookworm2011
Hey Girl,
How are things in your neck of the woods? I am doing ok, trying to get everything done around here so we can enjoy the upcoming week..I need some advice from someone on the outside looking in..My 19 year old daughter lives with her bf and his mom. She has lived with them for three years. The mom let her live there so they could play house, basically and I got tired of the drama so I decided to let her stay and focus on my other three kids. My daughter just graduated college and is looking for a job, her bf goes to school, only the mom works and they are being evicted. My daughter can come home, live with my parents, or in one of our properties but the bf cannot. I pay some of the bills in their household (cable, internet, food, gas) and the mom pays the rest. Now that they all need a place to go, they are looking at us. I do not want to get into a rental agreement with any of them. I would not have the heart to evict my daughter under any circumstances, and this would cause conflict between my husband and I.
I don't have a problem renting to the mom because it would be a business decision and nothing personal but its probably not a good idea even though we arent friends or anything..I just don't want to get caught holding the bag should my daughter and her bf break up you know?
Long story short, I offered them my 5th wheel. Its 34 feet with 2 slides and worth 18,000 but I would accept 5,000 in payments of 500 a month for a year..Heres my question, if I sell it to the mother (she would not live there, my daughter and her bf would) I would be taking at least a 5-6,000 loss for what I can get from an RV dealer..so do you think I should still be obligated to help with the space rent too? (its 400 a month for utilities and everything else)..the mom wants me to commit to help until the kids are on their feet but when I offered the RV, it was intended for her, and she could do as she wished with it now I feel like shes trying to trap me into contiuing to take care of them which I can't do. I would have no additional expense if my daughter just came home so I dont want to take on helping these extra people indefinitely just because the mom committed to doing this. I also need to explain all this to my husband (the terms)..I am trying to be fair and also help my daughter out but trying to not support her choices of living together with someone she isn't married to, which I've been doing this past year and feel I'm sending conflicting messages to both her and my other kids..I also don't want to over extend my credit to this family because they have none and are depending on me to get all of this going for them..My husbands solution is that she should come home or else let them worry about somewhere to live. He wants me to stop contributing altogether which I am not going to do until my daughter is self sufficient and can pay her own bills and take care of herself and she is a long way off from there but is taking steps to make it happen..I just want to have my head clear when I talk to him because despite how he feels, he said he will back me up 100% with whatever I decided to do, regardless of if he agrees with it or not. My biggest issue isn't the money, it's my relationship with her. We just got back on track and I don't want anything to come between us, but I want to do what's right, not what's easiest..I value your opinion..thanks for listening
Char
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Anonymous40784   in reply to Randy1961
You are not alone.
The devil just make us feel that way.
Know that all your sisters & brothers in the Lord all feel that way at sometime in our life.
God bless you
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Randy1961
Thank you for your words of understanding. I don't feel so alone now.
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Anonymous40784   in reply to bookworm2011
Hey girl,

We don't use our RV either.
Ours is only 28 ft & it sits in our driveway.

Your RV sounds like it would make someone a nice home.

Girl, I'm so happy for your son.
And,what a remarkable child.
Not everyone wants to be a missionary.
Wow,wow,wow!!!!
That is just awesome.

The weather here is schizophrenic also.
Its raining one minute & super hot,sunny the next.

You are more than welcome for the prayers.
It is my pleasure to pray for others.

Hugs

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bookworm2011
Wanted to say hello and hope that you are doing well..how is the weather in your parts? Its strange here, hot one moment and raining with lightening the next..Seems I got sick out camping this weekend and my little one too, he has broncitis so maybe something in the RV set him off, dust or whatever..have you taken your RV out this year? Ours is so costly being its 34 feet and we pay to store it, so we decided to find someone that needs a place to stay that can afford to buy it for a really discounted rate, it will make someone a nice home..but for us, we dont need it anymore, the little kids like being outside more than inside, they dont care about its features and such, they rather cook over the firepit than inside the rv anyway so were going to buy a smaller one that can fit in our driveway and cut the storage costs each month..also wanted to tell you thank you for all your prayers, My son did get his financial aid to attend Bible college, his friend who attends also is about to graduate and has job offers in Austrailia as well as Germany..she is very excited and I am too, it lets me know that my son will be able to make his dreams of becoming an international missionary come true taking the path he is taking...anyway you have a great week if I don't talk to you soon ok?
Your friend,
Char
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Anonymous40784
A friend wanted me to pass this along.
If you would like prayer,then please go to:

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Anonymous40784   in reply to nayan7513
hello there
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nayan7513   in reply to nayan7513
hi
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Anonymous40784   in reply to bellezz
I will say a prayer for you & your family.
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bellezz
Hi I found your page through google and I am a single mom of three I am in need of help with a security deposit I am in a desperate need found a apt and i am able to pay the rent with the help of section 8 however I finding it difficult to find help with the securtiy deposit if anyone can help me and my children would greatly appreciate it
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bluskees
GOD... has always given me the strength otherwise I would not still be here...I trust that the lord is my ever constant companion and that he is guiding me the right way... thats why I finally quit the big box...tired of being diminished personally and professionally.. but I hhad put myself in a bind... not looking just for handouts just for a little help until I hope to win for my unemployment...last time on unemployment was 1974... a long time ago... I have never wanted anything for nothing... never but only to be treated the same ...with my fellow employees and to live by the golden rule... to unto others have you will have them to unto you... always lived that but to many people out there that hold dark feelings for anyone or any person that truly has a good heart....and then your forced out of work... in one way or another....go to http://bluskeesplea.blogs... and tell your friends... just to visit..I appreciate and may the GOOD LORD BLESS YOY.
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Wonder wheel   in reply to AidpageTeam
Hello,
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AidpageTeam   in reply to Inspiration
You're welcome!
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Inspiration   in reply to AidpageTeam
Thanks!
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